Comments on: Sex Advice

By: Kindle

Kindle — Wed, 21 Nov 2012 09:28:38 +0000

You are awesome Ms. Cho. You are so open and honest and appreciate you and respect you. It’s always inspiring to hear what you say because you always speak your mind and don’t worry what people say.

By: Russell Miller

Russell Miller — Mon, 24 Sep 2012 02:09:51 +0000

Hi! I haven’t commented on one of your posts in ages!! I love what you wrote, for it’s uncompromising honesty. It also makes me sad, because sex is so often brutal, unwanted, and gross and ugly, as you said. I basically gave up on sex because I thought I was unattractive to women. I even considered (very briefly) having sex with men instead, maybe they would like me better. I am glad I didn’t follow through on that. I like women when it comes to sex. In the past two weeks I have become involved in something called One Taste. I don’t know if you have heard of it. It is about Orgasmic Meditation. It trains men and women to bring women to orgasm as a structured meditation. It is basically a form of Tantra. I haven’t done this yet, but will have the opportunity fairly soon. I hope this isn’t a cult. I have had experience with cults in the past, and I know how to deal with them. But it seems legit to me so far. I am not suggesting you try this, but I know, that for me, I need something that will force me to confront my ‘issues’ about having sex with women, so I can have what she and I both want. I like that this practice is focused on women, was founded by a woman, and unlike all other sex, men are there to serve the woman. I can let you know how it goes, if you like. Anyway, I am happy to be back commenting on your blog. It is refreshing, after hearing about how great sex can be, an honest appraisal from someone I respect. Thank you, Margaret!!

By: rollergirl

rollergirl — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 02:14:34 +0000

I was sexually abused as a child. Thank you for this. Really. You are brilliant and put it in a new light for me.

So much love,

From Canada

By: Angelisa

Angelisa — Wed, 19 Sep 2012 21:06:51 +0000

Hey Margaret,
I just wanted to say thank you for writing this. Thank you for being honest, funny, and inspiring.

Love from Michigan

By: Matthew

Matthew — Sun, 16 Sep 2012 01:29:43 +0000

This might be the best sex advice I have ever read.

“We can’t control what happens to us, but we can control how much we care.” YES.

“Remember always that sex is for you first, and then the other person by proxy, but actually it pays off better for the other person if it is for you first.” I had never actually thought of it in these terms before, but it makes so much sense. I want to go have sex for me first RIGHT NOW.

By: Tom

Tom — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 07:09:46 +0000

I’ve found you funny for quite some time, and very attractive for just as long. Now that I’ve read some of your wonderful writing, I find you even more attractive. I had no idea you were this cool! If only I had friends like you!

By: jay

jay — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 10:57:12 +0000

Haha that was a great read you have inspired some people to join the vibrators club so to speak!!

By: Walmartah Anita Bea Neutered

Walmartah Anita Bea Neutered — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 02:34:43 +0000

Oh my! Thanks for delving into this subject. You are much funnier than Dr. Ruth lol!

Big Hug from Utah!
Walmartah of the Utah Cyber Sluts.org always raising money for charities in need for the last decade!

By: Cristina

Cristina — Wed, 12 Sep 2012 04:02:17 +0000

Margaret-

Thank you for this post. Not only am I a huge follower of your career, but I fucking love your openness and honesty, especially regarding the issues deal with by women. Women need icons and role models who are real and who are not afraid of using their voice and sharing their experiences. You basically rock and so does your beautifully tattooed body

I myself am striving to be more fearless and open, and not long ago I experienced a sexual awakening. Since then, it’s opened me up in ways and in directions I’ve never thought I’d go. It’s given me ridiculous confidence in my acting career, and I’ve only just started to identify the appetite that I have for life, love, and sex.

Women should be able to talk about this not just to each other but to men also. We’re like an untapped resource in the workforce and in the bedroom! Keep on being you and doin what you do.

Love,
Cristina

By: Tanja Traber

Tanja Traber — Wed, 12 Sep 2012 00:33:07 +0000

this aging girl wants to thank you for once again putting your finger right on it (and for all that you share here) from the bottom of my heart