Gay Marriage Legal in CA
The ban on gay marriage in California has been lifted!! I can’t believe it. For everyone who has been working for this for what seems like such a long time it feels like a miracle. I am not sure what this means now. Can gays and lesbians get married in California? Today?!
Update: Ian and some readers updated me and said that in 30 days, gay and lesbian couples in California will legally be able to marry. I am absolutely thrilled!! Well?! What are you waiting for? If you have a longtime partner – now is the time!! If you have always wanted to be married here is your chance!!!! Yay California!!! Yay! Gay!! Marriage!!!
May 15th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
YAY!
May 15th, 2008 at 3:49 pm
About time!
May 15th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
Gavin Newsom: “It’s about human dignity. It’s about civil rights. It’s about time.”
May 15th, 2008 at 5:14 pm
This is so great!!! Hopefully it will have a snowball effect and soon be legalized in my stat of Nevada…
May 15th, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Anyone know a decent area with reasonable rent in California? This Illinoisan and her lady are getting damn tired of waiting for the “Land of Lincoln” to do anything about civil rights for LGBTQ people.
May 15th, 2008 at 6:05 pm
The news is unbelievable. Equal rights for my partner and I are finally here, and we owe it to people like you Margaret! Your compassion for everyone is undeniable, and my gratitude is unmeasurable. I can never thank you enough.
May 15th, 2008 at 7:12 pm
so so exciting
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May 15th, 2008 at 8:06 pm
I would like to kiss Gavin right on the mouth…
As would many people.
This is a day to be proud of our country.
May 15th, 2008 at 8:14 pm
There is a God! Thank you! I’m so happy!
May 15th, 2008 at 8:30 pm
This made me so happy today. It makes all of us more equal. GLBT rights 4evah!
May 15th, 2008 at 9:56 pm
I wish I could be in SF for Pride this year–it is going to RULE!!!
May 16th, 2008 at 5:18 am
Hey all, I live in the “Equality” State of Wyoming and I’m curious how this ruling will affect other states. Did you know that we still don’t have a hate crimes law here, even after Matthew Shepard, not to mention Brokeback Mountain?! I’m with Katelyn above about wanting to transplant to CA asap!
May 16th, 2008 at 6:31 am
HOORAY! Our day is coming! I have been considering moving to LA from Chicago for a few months now, anyway. The fact that Illinois is supposedly going to pass civil unions legislation this session now seems less exciting. I am right there with you, Katelyn! Why not pack up and hit the road for CA?!?
May 16th, 2008 at 7:20 am
Yay! I’m so happy for all same-sex couples - I also hope it is a eye-opener for other states and that they also work on changing their own laws. Congratulations everyone.
May 16th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
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May 16th, 2008 at 6:18 pm
I’m so happy! I’m proud of my state like no other. And to the person commenting about decent rent: It’s really expensive out here. I live in the cheaper areas and the cheapest you can get over here in southern california is a crappy apartment for 650$ +
May 17th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
Thanks, Sarah.
$650 would actually be less than what I’m paying for a pretty crappy apartment in Chicago. Either way, it seems a small price to pay for equality under the law.
I think (above commenter) Jeff and I will rent a moving van together and hightail it to your fair state. And hey, we’ll take a detour and pick up Meg from Wyoming on our way.
May 18th, 2008 at 1:59 am
hey girl! i am a big fan of yours. I CANT READ YOUR BLOGS lol. its hard to see it with the black background. just wanted to let ya know.
Lesbian butch in cali,
Kendra aka taz
May 18th, 2008 at 2:28 am
Depends if it can clear that finally hurdle with the voters come November. If it does then the ban has been lifted all together. I hope voters vote that way. This may set a factor that gay marriage will be legal in all states at last!
May 21st, 2008 at 6:02 am
Tin foil hat on: Anyone notice Mass was also a few months before the presidential election? It’s almost as if it’s timed to rally up the Republican base. Congratulations, y’all, but be prepared to have your wedding flickr photos be flyer fodder for McCain’s minions.
May 21st, 2008 at 8:49 am
I hope to come visit! XOXO
June 3rd, 2008 at 5:39 pm
From the point of view of a straight white male: I’ve never understood the fear people have about gay marriage.
If two men or two women want to get married how does that affect my relationship with my wife?
I hope this is finally falling to common sense.
And for all the bible thumpers Jesus never said anything against gays, that’s Old Testament stuff. Jesus talked about loving everyone without exception.
I have great hope that my gay son will be able to fall in love and marry just as his mother and father did. And I will proudly stand at the ceremony.
June 4th, 2008 at 7:41 am
This battle isn’t over yet. Almost all of us (the Gay and Lesbian population in CA) are very much aware that this recently acquired right is still in limbo.
Just make sure you register to vote a few months BEFORE the November election.
Then, VOTE in November… especially if you are a resident in CA.
… AND TELL YOUR FRIENDS TO REGISTER EARLY AND VOTE.
The proposition to overturn the court ruling and change the CA State Constitution has been ratified and will be on the ballot in November. The Conservatives and Republicans are going to use the ballot measure with fervor to get out their constituents to vote. This ballot measure will also hinder the existing rights for “CA Same Sex” Domestic Partnership. But what do they care if they strip us of our rights. It will help them sleep at night knowing that they kept my partner and I from sharing medical benefits.
EDUCATE THE PUBLIC!
GET REGISTERED!
GET INVOLVED!
VOTE!
June 12th, 2008 at 1:25 am
thank you hauhau :))
June 21st, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Now let’s hope that those anti-marriage people don’t pass that initiative. Everyone should have the right to marry, this is after all supposed to be the most free nation in the world. Yet, here in Tx. I still feel like a second class citizen.
After California allowed interracial marriages, many states followed suit, perhaps it will happen again.
September 2nd, 2008 at 5:47 pm
thank you
September 5th, 2008 at 5:17 pm
thank you friend
vote